Dear Home-Ec 101,
How do you get out set-in stains especially in clothes?
They have been there awhile. I don’t want to have to throw these tops out.
Teresa the Terse in Terra Haute
This is one of those questions where I wish I were a lot more comfortable on camera than I am, but… I’m not. So, get a cup of your favorite beverage and settle in.
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What makes stain removal so complex?
It’s chemistry, baby, chemistry.
Dye Stains and Bleach Stains
For a few moments, I want to use hair dye as a metaphor. Like hair, the cloth is made of fibers (and some is even made of animal hair, wool sweaters, for instance). Like hair, these fibers can absorb chemicals that change their color or structure (like a perm).
So let’s say you want to go from dark hair to blonde. You wouldn’t have good results if you just used blonde dye on dark hair. You have to bleach the hair first, stripping the color.
Some stains work like this, removing the color from your clothing. There’s no fixing the bleach spots caused by your whitening toothpaste or acne cream. So use those items carefully. Well, you can get a dye pen and re-dye the spots, but that’s different than removing a stain.
Returning to the dye metaphor, there’s this “temporary ” dye I see on Facebook, Overtone, I think. It’s made to wash away, and it will, mostly. Sometimes the best you’re going to get from the white towel you used with the red “temporary” dye is very light pink. Why? The dye molecules soaked so far into the fibers aren’t getting trapped by the detergent molecules in the washing machine. (Learn more about how clothes get clean in your wash here.) Ink, Kool-aid, food coloring, etc. are dye stains.
Many dye stains are permanent, but you can try heavy duty detergent and soaking. With ink you can get lucky with rubbing alcohol
Yup, we’re going there, sorry.
Now we’re going to change metaphors. I want you to think about a raw egg, now think about cooking that egg, now back to the raw egg.
Oh wait, you can’t go back to the raw egg.
That process is called a physical change, the protein molecules in the egg change shape and can’t go back to the way they were before the heat was applied.
Some stains, like blood and other bodily fluids, contain proteins. Those proteins work their way into the spaces in the fibers of your material, they get very comfortable, don’t get removed, and then either get cooked in the hot water of your washing machine or the heat of your dryer.
Stick to cold water, agitation and detergent.
These aren’t too bad, actually. The biggest problem with oily stains is that they are really stubborn and that they usually aren’t just oil. They tend to bring their protein friends along for the ride, so the techniques you use to get rid of the oils, cook the proteins. Darn it.
For straight up oils, butter, grease etc, a laundry pre-treatment either with detergent applied directly to the area or a stain stick or spray is your best bet.
These are your wines, teas, soda etc. Here’s where the club soda trick got started. You don’t even need club soda, plain water will do. Don’t use soap that can set the stain.
But Wait, There’s More
Oh… you didn’t think it would be this simple did you?
Of course not, don’t forget that for every stain you also have to factor in what was stained. Always consult the care label. Don’t use any method that would damage the fabric.
For combination stains work from the gentlest to the harshest method. For instance if you had a chili dog with mustard and dropped in on your white cotton t-shirt. You’ve got a protein, grease, and dye stain. Yay.
First, rinse the shirt thoroughly with cool water to remove as much of the food particles as possible. Look at the shirt. Are they all gone? Great. Now pre-soak the shirt in detergent and water and rinse again in cool water. We’re giving the detergent some time to work on both the protein and dye stains. Finally, only after all of the mustard is gone get your stain stick and heavily treat the area before washing on the hottest water the shirt will tolerate to remove the grease.
About Those Set-In Stains
Can you remove them? I don’t want to give you false hope. I also want to warn you that if the clothes are what is referred to as “fast fashion” which means pretty much anything from Kohls, Target, Walmart, etc all along that price point… it’s not likely to survive the trauma of the stain removal process.
And for the record, I want to be very clear; I am not making any judgment about wearing fast fashion. I simply want to set expectations for the lifespan of the article of clothing. They are not made to last. For what it is worth, it’s pretty much all I own, too. I’m trying to save and buy quality pieces for myself, but my wardrobe tends to take a back seat since we have six kids. So when I say I get it, I really do.
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