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		<title>By: robe de cocktail</title>
		<link>http://www.home-ec101.com/deciding-what-to-keep/comment-page-1/#comment-48772</link>
		<dc:creator>robe de cocktail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 06:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually have helped several friends and family members organize and clean out their homes and this book has been a great source of information and encouragement to everyone involved. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually have helped several friends and family members organize and clean out their homes and this book has been a great source of information and encouragement to everyone involved.</p>
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		<title>By: Sally Parrott Ashbrook</title>
		<link>http://www.home-ec101.com/deciding-what-to-keep/comment-page-1/#comment-13757</link>
		<dc:creator>Sally Parrott Ashbrook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 17:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I went through the same emotional sequence as Stumped, I decided to donate the things I didn&#039;t need to a nonprofit that transitions homeless people into apartments. It&#039;s amazing what I could convince myself to happily give away when I imagined it making someone else&#039;s life more joyful.  It was also amazing how much lighter I felt once it was all gone.  There have been a couple of things I wish I&#039;d kept (like I gave away about half my wine glasses), but I just borrow those things from friends if I need them.  Life goes on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I went through the same emotional sequence as Stumped, I decided to donate the things I didn&#8217;t need to a nonprofit that transitions homeless people into apartments. It&#8217;s amazing what I could convince myself to happily give away when I imagined it making someone else&#8217;s life more joyful.  It was also amazing how much lighter I felt once it was all gone.  There have been a couple of things I wish I&#8217;d kept (like I gave away about half my wine glasses), but I just borrow those things from friends if I need them.  Life goes on.</p>
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		<title>By: Eyebee</title>
		<link>http://www.home-ec101.com/deciding-what-to-keep/comment-page-1/#comment-13508</link>
		<dc:creator>Eyebee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Apr 2008 03:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An Idea for bloggers who wish to have a clear out.

Find one item each day to get rid of. (Trash, goodwill, family member - it doesn&#039;t matter, but it has to leave the house).

Take a photograph of it.
Blog it... 
Call it something like &quot;today&#039;s item&quot;

Of course more expensive stuff could go on eBay, or you could offer it to your blog readers....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An Idea for bloggers who wish to have a clear out.</p>
<p>Find one item each day to get rid of. (Trash, goodwill, family member &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t matter, but it has to leave the house).</p>
<p>Take a photograph of it.<br />
Blog it&#8230;<br />
Call it something like &#8220;today&#8217;s item&#8221;</p>
<p>Of course more expensive stuff could go on eBay, or you could offer it to your blog readers&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: tammy</title>
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		<dc:creator>tammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 17:48:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For anyone trying to declutter/organize, I would love to recommend the book &quot;It&#039;s All Too Much&quot; by Peter Walsh. I actually (unprofessionally) have helped several friends and family members organize and clean out their homes and this book has been a great source of information and encouragement to everyone involved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For anyone trying to declutter/organize, I would love to recommend the book &#8220;It&#8217;s All Too Much&#8221; by Peter Walsh. I actually (unprofessionally) have helped several friends and family members organize and clean out their homes and this book has been a great source of information and encouragement to everyone involved.</p>
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		<title>By: KJ</title>
		<link>http://www.home-ec101.com/deciding-what-to-keep/comment-page-1/#comment-13450</link>
		<dc:creator>KJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 03:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Phooey, I had a great comment written up here that didn&#039;t get saved because I didn&#039;t know email was a required field. Bummer.

Anyway - here&#039;s the nutshell: If you&#039;re donating, make sure you read up on the new tax laws:

http://taxguide.completetax.com/tools/form8283_m.asp</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Phooey, I had a great comment written up here that didn&#8217;t get saved because I didn&#8217;t know email was a required field. Bummer.</p>
<p>Anyway &#8211; here&#8217;s the nutshell: If you&#8217;re donating, make sure you read up on the new tax laws:</p>
<p><a href="http://taxguide.completetax.com/tools/form8283_m.asp" rel="nofollow">http://taxguide.completetax.com/tools/form8283_m.asp</a></p>
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		<title>By: Need A Nap2</title>
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		<dc:creator>Need A Nap2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:25:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scarves - take a picture of each one or all of them.  Then get rid of it!  :)  A picture takes up a lot less room and you can treasure the memory without the clutter.  That&#039;s what has helped me let go of a lot of old clothes, at least I have a picture of it.

I like all of the suggestions.  Thanks from a working-on-it packrat!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scarves &#8211; take a picture of each one or all of them.  Then get rid of it!  <img src='http://www.home-ec101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   A picture takes up a lot less room and you can treasure the memory without the clutter.  That&#8217;s what has helped me let go of a lot of old clothes, at least I have a picture of it.</p>
<p>I like all of the suggestions.  Thanks from a working-on-it packrat!</p>
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		<title>By: tink</title>
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		<dc:creator>tink</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 02:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suggestion?

Start with another area in the house. Somewhere that has far fewer items that you &quot;might need someday&quot; or items that have memories attached.

Then, be brutal with that area.  Ask yourself, Do I love it? Do I use it? Do I have another one I like better?

If the answer to any of those is no - find it a new home. You&#039;ll bless yourself (with more space) and you&#039;ll bless others who may really need those things that are sitting there doing nothing.

The reason I suggest starting elsewhere is because I, a 100% certifiable packrat - started in a back closet full of &quot;stuff&quot; - I was (what I thought at the time) was brutal and bagged up everything that didn&#039;t pass those 3 questions.

 Decluttering is addictive.

That new spot you just decluttered will look so  awesome, that you&#039;ll want another spot to look like that too. You&#039;ll want another spot that you no longer have to dig to find a specific item.

So then you&#039;ll move to the next place.

The thing is, what I &quot;thought&quot; was brutal at the beginning of my  decluttering obsession, by the end, I knew wasn&#039;t nearly brutal enough, and went back through the first spaces and probably got rid of just about the same amount of stuff.

Sorry for the novel here, but honestly, decluttering my home was an amazing journey . It gave me the gift of more time in my day because now,  everything has a home and when I need something, I can lay my hands on it in moments.

When someone else needs something, I can direct them to exactly where it is without having to get up and go hunt for it myself.

My husband says &quot;In 18 years she never threw ANYTHING away, now I&#039;m afraid I&#039;ll wake up and find my butt in the dumpster&quot;

Me, the packrat, is actually organized! Sounds silly, but it&#039;s given me more peace in my life than I ever could have imagined.

Good luck, be strong, you&#039;ll be giving yourself a wonderful gift.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suggestion?</p>
<p>Start with another area in the house. Somewhere that has far fewer items that you &#8220;might need someday&#8221; or items that have memories attached.</p>
<p>Then, be brutal with that area.  Ask yourself, Do I love it? Do I use it? Do I have another one I like better?</p>
<p>If the answer to any of those is no &#8211; find it a new home. You&#8217;ll bless yourself (with more space) and you&#8217;ll bless others who may really need those things that are sitting there doing nothing.</p>
<p>The reason I suggest starting elsewhere is because I, a 100% certifiable packrat &#8211; started in a back closet full of &#8220;stuff&#8221; &#8211; I was (what I thought at the time) was brutal and bagged up everything that didn&#8217;t pass those 3 questions.</p>
<p> Decluttering is addictive.</p>
<p>That new spot you just decluttered will look so  awesome, that you&#8217;ll want another spot to look like that too. You&#8217;ll want another spot that you no longer have to dig to find a specific item.</p>
<p>So then you&#8217;ll move to the next place.</p>
<p>The thing is, what I &#8220;thought&#8221; was brutal at the beginning of my  decluttering obsession, by the end, I knew wasn&#8217;t nearly brutal enough, and went back through the first spaces and probably got rid of just about the same amount of stuff.</p>
<p>Sorry for the novel here, but honestly, decluttering my home was an amazing journey . It gave me the gift of more time in my day because now,  everything has a home and when I need something, I can lay my hands on it in moments.</p>
<p>When someone else needs something, I can direct them to exactly where it is without having to get up and go hunt for it myself.</p>
<p>My husband says &#8220;In 18 years she never threw ANYTHING away, now I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;ll wake up and find my butt in the dumpster&#8221;</p>
<p>Me, the packrat, is actually organized! Sounds silly, but it&#8217;s given me more peace in my life than I ever could have imagined.</p>
<p>Good luck, be strong, you&#8217;ll be giving yourself a wonderful gift.</p>
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		<title>By: Carol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 01:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a difficult decision to make.  We have people collecting for a local charity next week, and they accept about anything. It is a good cause, and helped me get in gear and clear out stuff.  We have about 10 bags of clothes and a few misc. odds and ends ready to go, and we still have a week left to clean!  

Knowing that I am helping other people, really made my decision a lot easier about what to keep and what to get rid of.  The tax deduction for next year helped a bit too :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a difficult decision to make.  We have people collecting for a local charity next week, and they accept about anything. It is a good cause, and helped me get in gear and clear out stuff.  We have about 10 bags of clothes and a few misc. odds and ends ready to go, and we still have a week left to clean!  </p>
<p>Knowing that I am helping other people, really made my decision a lot easier about what to keep and what to get rid of.  The tax deduction for next year helped a bit too <img src='http://www.home-ec101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mrs.W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs.W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 00:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can all those scarves be re-purposed somehow?  How about a quilt?  Then you could enjoy them on your guest bed or hung on a wall.

As for the shoes... well, donate them to a charity!  They could really be a blessing for someone who can&#039;t afford to buy shoes for their foot problems.  If you need another pair later, you can always order something else, right?

Other items can be passed on to other family members, who might also have an emotional attachment to things and have use for them.

Lastly, remember that your memories of special people and places you&#039;ve visited are in your heart and mind (and photos), not the &quot;stuff.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can all those scarves be re-purposed somehow?  How about a quilt?  Then you could enjoy them on your guest bed or hung on a wall.</p>
<p>As for the shoes&#8230; well, donate them to a charity!  They could really be a blessing for someone who can&#8217;t afford to buy shoes for their foot problems.  If you need another pair later, you can always order something else, right?</p>
<p>Other items can be passed on to other family members, who might also have an emotional attachment to things and have use for them.</p>
<p>Lastly, remember that your memories of special people and places you&#8217;ve visited are in your heart and mind (and photos), not the &#8220;stuff.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: warillever</title>
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		<dc:creator>warillever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 16:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your Aunt Marjorie&#039;s sentiment.

Maybe we could make that one steamer trunk per person?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your Aunt Marjorie&#8217;s sentiment.</p>
<p>Maybe we could make that one steamer trunk per person?</p>
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